LOVE AND EVENTS SITE: A Special World...to a special one

Thursday, November 3, 2011

A Special World...to a special one

A special world for you and me
A special bond one cannot see
It wraps us up in its cocoon
And holds us fiercely in its womb.

Its fingers spread like fine spun gold
Gently nestling us to the fold
Like silken thread it holds us fast
Bonds like this are meant to last.

And though at times a thread may break
A new one forms in its wake
To bind us closer and keep us strong
In a special world, where we belong.

An Entrapment

My love, I have tried with all my being
to grasp a form comparable to thine own,
but nothing seems worthy;

I know now why Shakespeare could not
compare his love to a summer’s day.
It would be a crime to denounce the beauty
of such a creature as thee,
to simply cast away the precision
God had placed in forging you.

Each facet of your being
whether it physical or spiritual
is an ensnarement
from which there is no release.
But I do not wish release.
I wish to stay entrapped forever.
With you for all eternity.
Our hearts, always as one.

U may b out of my nazar,
But u r not out of my dil.
U may b out of my reach,
But u r not out of my soch.
I may b kuch bi nahin 2 u,
But u’re always sab kuch 2 me!

My Heart

I have a heart n that is true,
But now it has gone from me to you,
So care for it just like I do,
Because I have no heart n U have two.

Be with U

When things go wrong…
When sadness fills ur heart…
when tears flow in ur eyes…
always remember 3 things
1) I’m with u…
2) Still with u…
3) Will ALWAYS b…

meaning of happy

do u knw d meanin of HAPPY?
    ?
    ?
    ?
    ?
    ?
    ?
    H–humne
    A–apko
    P–pal
    P–pal
    Y–yaad kiya!!!
    to aap bhi hame happy kar liya karo..

Name is so precious….

Flowers will die, sun will set..
But u r my love that i wont forget..
Ur name is so precious,it will nvr grow old..

Love Truly

When U love someone truly,
U don’t look for faults,
U don’t look for answers,
U don’t look for mistakes.
Instead, U fight the mistakes,
U accept the faults and
overlook the excuses.

Love with someone

when time comes for you to be in love with someone
make sure you choose a right person
who can care and show concern at any time,
any moment and not only loves you
but also loves what you want.

if you fall in love there is no hope

If you fall in river there is a boat ..

if you fall in well there is rope ..

But if you fall in love there is no hope

I have liked many but loved

I have liked many but loved very few.

yet no-one has been as sweet as u.

I'd stand and wait in the worlds longest queue.

just for the pleasure of a moment with u.

L O V E .. L = Lake of Sorrows

L O V E ..
L = Lake of Sorrows ..
O = Ocean of Tears ..
V = Valley of Death ..
E = End of life....

Sometimes My eyes get jealouse

Sometimes My eyes get jealouse of my Heart!!!

You Know Why?Bcoz.....

You Always Remain close to my HEART n far from my EYES.

L is for lust

O is for over

v is for very loveable

e is for ever

the 4 signs of love

Love is just like life

Love is just like life,

its not always easy and does not always bring happiness.

but when we do not stop living why should we stop loving

remember … I love U

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Hajui ukipatacho, haelewi thamani yake ndiyo maana anakwambia hakufai- 2

Nimekuwa nikilieleza hili mara kwa mara kwamba mapenzi yanapoangaliwa kila upande, unakuja kupata jibu kwamba hakuna uhusiano uliokamilika. Muhimu kwako ni kumkubali mwenzi wako kama alivyo na kumpa heshima yake ya asimilia mia moja.

Kumkubali ni kutambua ujazo wake moyoni mwako. Hapa nikiwa na maana kwamba wewe mwenyewe unakuwa umejiridhisha kuwa unampenda kwa alama zote, hivyo umeamua kufanya naye maisha.

Uvumilivu unahitajika kwa kila mmoja, lakini busara iliyo wazi ni kwamba hutakiwi kuishi kwa kutazama makosa ya mwenzi wako. Mwisho wa siku naye ni binadamu, kwahiyo unaishi na kiumbe chenye damu na moyo, siyo malaika.

Unashauriwa kumtambua mwenzi wako kwa jinsi alivyo na kujua jinsi ya kurekebisha kasoro zake. Uwe wa kwanza kujua udhaifu wake na kumkosoa kwa vipimo, siyo kwa sababu Mungu amekujalia mdomo na sauti ndiyo kila siku upayuke.

Una kila sababu ya kuzungumza na kutaka ushauri kuhusu mwandani wako lakini siyo nidhamu ‘kumvua nguo’. Hapa napitisha hoja kuwa kutoa kipaumbele kwa mwenzi wako ni sehemu ya nidhamu ya kimapenzi.

Wiki iliyopita nilikuonesha mifano. Unatakiwa ujiridhisha mwenyewe kuwa pamoja na kasoro zake bado anastahili kupewa hifadhi ya moyo wako. Lakini kuna huyo anayekuambia uachane naye. Je, unampa nafasi gani?

Jibu unalo, lakini kwangu nikikushauri kitaalamu kama muongozo ni kuwa unatakiwa uangalie moyo wako unakupa jibu gani kuliko kusikiliza rafiki anachosema. Ujazo wake kwenye moyo wako haujui na hatambui ni kiasi gani utaathirika ukimkosa.

Je, rafiki anakuja na hoja au ngonjera? Anaponda badala ya kukupa njia ya kufanya. “Ooh, achana naye, kwanza yule malaya sana atakuua.” Somo hili likupe sababu ya kuwaona marafiki wenye uelewa wa hisia kwa sababu utakapokosa usingizi usiku kwa sababu ya mawazo hatakuwepo.

Kama mwenzi wako hafai au anafaa, jibu lipo ndani ya kuta za moyo wako. Ndiyo maana linapokuja suala la kupokea ushauri wa kimapenzi, unatakiwa umuone mtu ambaye ana sifa ya kutoa ushauri. Tafuta washauri na siyo wapondaji.

Unaweza kuwaazima masikio marafiki zako, wakampaka mwenzi wako badala ya kukupa ufumbuzi wa kile kinachokusumbua. Mwisho ukaona yao ni mazuri halafu kwa hasira ukafikia uamuzi wa kuachana naye, utajuta baadaye. Itakutesa zaidi baada ya kubaini kuwa mmoja wa waliokuwa wanamponda ndiye kamchukua.

MJALI MWENZI WAKO KULIKO CHOCHOTE
Hiyo ni nidhamu kuu. Hapo unashauriwa kitaalamu kuwa mwenzi wako kama mtu ‘spesho’ zaidi wa maisha yako, unapaswa kwenda naye kwa maewaleno. Kusikilizana na kupeana muongozo wa kila siku katika maisha.

Fikiria kuwa una marafiki wengi, ndugu na jamaa mlioshibana lakini mwishoni unapotaka kulala, hurejea nyumbani na kujifunika shuka moja na mwenzi wako. Bila shaka unaona ni kwa namna gani huyo anashikilia kipengele nyeti cha maisha yako.

Dunia katika pointi ya maradhi, hususan Ukimwi na magonjwa mengine ya ngono, ni yeye ndiye anayeweza kukuweka huru. Damu yako ikawa salama, kwani kinyume chake asipokuwa makini, anaweza kuchetuka, akachetukia maradhi, mwisho wa siku akakuletea gonjwa uhangaike nalo.

Kwa maana hiyo ni mlinzi wa maisha yako. Unalala fofofo karibu yake na mpo wawili tu chumbani, ukiamka hujikuti na jeraha lolote. Usipomjali mtu wa namna hiyo unataka thamani yake ukampe nani?

Kuna kundi la watu huwatanguliza marafiki kuliko wenzi wao. Yaani katika pande mbili, mwenzi wako anasema hili, halafu wewe unasikiliza neno la rafiki kwanza. Hilo ni kosa kubwa ambalo ni rahisi kuyeshusha upendo.

Ni bora unapoona mwenzi wako anaongea kitu ambacho unaona hakifai, utumie muda wako kumuweka sawa na akuelewe. Usithubutu kufanya kinyume chake kama hakuelwi. Mwisho kabisa, ukiona mwenzio ana wasiwasi, jiepushe na hicho anachokihofia au mfanye aondoe mashaka.

Mwenzi wako anahisi kuna mtu unatoka naye kimapenzi. Fahamu kuwa hilo linamtesa moyoni, huwezi kujua kaambiwa na wangapi mpaka akaja kukuuliza. Zifanye fikra zake ziwe huru kwa kumuelewesha mpaka aelewe au jiepushe na huyo mtu.

Itaendelea wiki ijayo…

Chuki kwa mwenzi wako wa zamani haina faida, unapoteza muda

MAPENZI yana siri kubwa. Kila mmoja ana ugonjwa wake wa kupenda. Wengine wanawapenda wapenzi warefu, lakini kuna kundi ambalo huchanganyikiwa zaidi kwa wafupi. Pamoja na mchanganuo huo, kuachwa inauma hata kama anayekutosa hukuwa na mapenzi naye.

Ile dhana tu ya kuachwa ndiyo hutesa watu. Kuna dhana kwamba anayeacha mara nyingi hujiona mshindi dhidi ya aliyemuacha. Na hiyo ndiyo sababu ya wengi kuumia wanapofungiwa milango ya kukatisha uhusiano ambao pengine hata hawakuwa na maslahi nao.

Watu wanaingia kwenye mapenzi na baadaye wanatengana. Wapo wanaobaki na amani, lakini wengine wanaendelea kuishi katikati ya chuki.
Husalimiani na mwenzi wako wa zamani, mbaya zaidi pengine huyo uliye na uhasama (bifu) naye, mmefanikiwa kupata mtoto pamoja. Usiangalie moyo wako, zingatia ukuaji wa mwanao.

Hapa nifafanue kitu kimoja kwamba sifundishi watu kuwakaribia wenzi wao wa zamani, la hasha! Nashauri kutowekeana uadui kwa sababu hauna maana.
Mtaalamu mmoja wa saikolojia ameandika: “Moja kati ya njia rahisi ya kupoteza muda wako ni kumchukia mwenzi wako wa zamani.” Binafsi nakubali, kwa nini ujenge bifu na mtu aliye nje ya mzunguko wako wa maisha?

Naweza kuelewa kwamba kumchukia mtu ambaye hayupo tena kwenye mzunguko wa maisha yako, ni kama hatua ya kujipa maumivu ya moyo au huzuni isiyo na sababu.
Ukimchukia mwenzi wako wa zamani, maana yake unaendelea kumhifadhi kwenye moyo wako. Aghalabu utakumbuka mabaya yake lakini kuna vipindi vichache ambavyo mazuri yake yatakujia.

Endapo kuna mambo yake mazuri yatakuja kwenye ubongo wako, yatakutesa. Utakumbuka namna alivyokujenga kimahaba, si ajabu utamkumbuka tena na kuanza kuhisi kumkosa.
Njia rahisi ni kuhakikisha moyo wako unakuwa mweupe. Unaachana na kumbukumbu zote. Funga ukurasa wa zamani na ufungue mpya. Maisha yaendelee, Lady Jaydee aliimba Siku Hazigandi, wazungu wanasema life goes on.

Hatari kubwa katika chuki yako kwa mwenzi wako ni kuendelea kujipa maumivu ambayo si ajabu yatakuja kukusababishia ujione wewe bila yeye ni sawa na kukabiliana na kifo.
Kinyume cha mapenzi siyo chuki. Ni kutojali (kupotezea). Yaani unapokosana na mwenzi wako, usianze bifu, badala yake anza kumpotezea na usimjali kwa chochote.

Tafsiri nzuri ya kumchukia mwenzi wako wa zamani maana yake bado unampenda na bado unahitaji kuendelea naye.
Watu wengi wanatangaza kuachana na wenzi wao lakini wanaendelea kudumisha ukaribu bila sababu za msingi, ingawa kuna uwezekano mkubwa mioyo yao ndiyo inayowatuma.

Kwa taarifa ni kwamba kitendo cha kuendelea kuwa karibu na mwenzi wako wa zamani, maana yake unakaribisha fursa ya wewe na yeye ya ama kukumbushia au kurejea upya kwenye mapenzi.
Tafsiri nyingine ni kwamba ile chuki ambayo wewe unakuwa nayo inatokana na ukweli kwamba unahitaji aje kwako lakini unaona wazi kuwa hana mpango nawe hata kidogo.

Ukweli ni kwamba wewe mwenyewe utajiona umebeba mzigo wa usumbufu kumchukia mpenzi wako wa zamani ambaye huna ukaribu naye.
Kwa mwanamke, nafasi kubwa kwake katika maisha yake, mara mnapoachana, atatengana na wewe kwa sababu maalumu. Ukionesha nia ya kuendelea naye, atarejea kwako kwa ari zaidi.

Unatakiwa kwenda mbele kukabiliana na matukio mapya ikiwa unaumizwa na machungu ya kuachana na mwenzi wako.

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Thursday, November 3, 2011

A Special World...to a special one

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